Wednesday, April 19, 2006

Blessed En En is Series - Male Bonding


I think I can honestly say that i have not been too much of an *evil* Preggie during the 9 mths of pregnancy.. no midnight runs required of my hubby, limited leg rub requests (unless i was having cramps) and seriously not much of tanturms (a little short on the fuse perhaps).. so En's Daddy had a relatively easy 9 mths..

However, pay back time came after En arrived, with En's super short fuse, fiery tantrums and the nightly wailing colicky fits, it requires a great deal of patience to deal and manage baby En..

Through it all, my hubby has demonstrated infinite patience (now, i can safely say I am not the ultimate test of his patience, haks!) and tender loving care towards Baby En... No matter how loud the screams were, how long the wailing went on, my hubby has the patience to outlast Baby En. Cocooning En tightly in his arms, my hubby would relief me of these stressful moments and tend to En till En dropped off to sleep. It is no wonder baby En adores him on sight - always gurgling with laughter when he sees my hubby..

Jealous I am not, proud of the 2 men in my life I am, indeed.. and En is really blessed to have such a dad, who possesses the depths of patience to put up with en's antics, and a dad ever ready to take on more than his fair share of parenting.. from waking up in the middle of the night to tend to En to the tough experience of feeding En when En started to pull stunts such as blowing bubbles into his milk bottle ..

through it all, I see unrelentless patience, steely resolve in putting up with the difficult moments, and unconditional love for his little boy.. and grateful I am to have such a great partner to steer through these challenging months... through his deeds and actions, my hubby has challenged me to strive to be a better mum to En! For that, En and I have much to be thankful for!! Posted by Picasa

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