我不说。。。

最近， 领悟了一种情感。。

我不说 并不代表 我不懂
我不说 并不代表我不在乎
我不说 并不代表 我没感觉

因为 安静的带过 也是一种 感觉
若你没看见
那也是一种缘分

我不想说 因为你也该知道了

Recently, in many incidents, with the kids and the people around me, I find myself being more passive. Maybe I need a pause. Maybe I am really getting older..

But it is a clear departure of some of my older ways..
I was always of the stand that if we want something, or to be the agent of change, we need to be active.

Active participation, active confrontation, active assertion...
So I always state my views and my thoughts, as clearly as I can. Even if it does not get through all the time, it is a platform of communication, which leads to understanding..

But recently I realise that Passivity and Time, are agents of change too..
Time, if you allow it to do its magic, brings about changes too..
And let time play out the consequences.
Believe that Time will bring about the same realisation that you want in others..

Particularly in kids, I think this is important.
Some things just need Time to nurture and come to fruition.
Forcing the issue do not always help.

When it comes to relationships, giving time and space may also help to open up a clearer field of vision. And it is a also a test of how the different parties understand the other parties intuitively.
And if the understanding is not there, even speaking it, will not being it about.

I am beginning to understand this.
Slowly.

Ultimately, if it is not to be.. it may never be.